Let me clarify.. I did not ask for anything. I was chatting with Chris the other day, and commented on the fact that several people, ok, primarily men whom I knew in my post separation/divorced/pre-Chris days of internet dating, were suddenly appearing online to say Hi, and catch up.
No worries, Chris knows better than to think there was anything to worry about. A good portion of the men I met online were of the 'I would never ever think about signing a contract with them' kind, so its all good-- these particular few were the harmless,' let's be friends-- since nothing else could work out' variety .. But he says to me, "weren't you recently playing the pity card about missing your friends?"
WHAT?
my friends??? These persons are not my friends. acquaintances is a stretch.. I don't contact them, they say hi to me. And it can go months between these 'hellos' from them. Period... there was a reason we stopped talking in the first place.. Neither of us had the time or desire to make it work, so it didn't.
No offense to you all out there... But I have Chris, and that's all I need.
He is the one.. and as far as my friends.. They know who they are and how I feel and I have made contact with all but one of them recently, so I just needed, (back a few weeks ago), to let the world know I missed them.
I still do, but in a different way. I have come to grips with the fact that we are in our 30's now, and not the 20 somethings we were back then. We all have lives, kids, jobs, whatever. Welcome to adulthood..enjoy your stay!!
Anyway, these men who popped in to say hi only did one real thing....They made me realize even more, just how lucky I am to have my Chris!! I do feel so head over heels, that no one will ever take that away.
So, thank you all for saying hi..
That is all I have to say about that!